I spend them with my wife at the very least, and her parents. I will sometimes visit my parents as well and spend a bit of the Holiday with them as well.
I usually just spend them at home with my mom. I haven't spoken to my dad's side of the family in a few years, and we only occasionally go to her brother's house for Thanksgiving. Last time we went was a couple years ago.
Most holidays my husband and I spend alone. Our daughter doesn't have a car anymore to come visit us, and going to the city can be difficult because there isn't a lot of parking.