Playing the blame game is really a bad habit that should be changed. Blaming people and circumstances gives the excuse for not assessing one's actions and decisions.
Did you know that no one created your problems but you? Yes, you! Your problems are the manifestations of your past decisions and responses to the things that happen to you. You can't just blame people and expect them to solve the problems you created. A lot of us are not aware about this. Blaming people and circumstances is just a way to justify and turn a blind eye on wrong decisions, thus making one person feel good. Sometimes, some people have their share of faults that lead to your current problems but it's partial. At the end of the day, life is what you do to what happens to you. It's all about the response you choose to have which manifests later on.
How to deal with such bad habit? Develop the "It's my fault" attitude to replace the bad habit of blaming people and circumstances. Instead of playing the blame game, ask yourself, "What caused my problem? What did I do wrong? What else do I need to learn for me to solve my problem?" Always find a lesson to everything that happens to you so you won't make the same mistakes. Blaming won't solve anything. Assess yourself and focus on the solution instead, then learn from it.
Did you know that no one created your problems but you? Yes, you! Your problems are the manifestations of your past decisions and responses to the things that happen to you. You can't just blame people and expect them to solve the problems you created. A lot of us are not aware about this. Blaming people and circumstances is just a way to justify and turn a blind eye on wrong decisions, thus making one person feel good. Sometimes, some people have their share of faults that lead to your current problems but it's partial. At the end of the day, life is what you do to what happens to you. It's all about the response you choose to have which manifests later on.
How to deal with such bad habit? Develop the "It's my fault" attitude to replace the bad habit of blaming people and circumstances. Instead of playing the blame game, ask yourself, "What caused my problem? What did I do wrong? What else do I need to learn for me to solve my problem?" Always find a lesson to everything that happens to you so you won't make the same mistakes. Blaming won't solve anything. Assess yourself and focus on the solution instead, then learn from it.
