Also, how long have you been in one?
Let's share our stories.
I was in one with my husband. At the time, he was just a boyfriend. He had a stress disorder where he would shut down from time to time, and never tell me what was truly bothering him. He ended up telling me he was being harassed by his friends and co workers about our relationship. I would always feel scared for him, but he would never open up....I began to think he grew bored of me....so I broke up with him.
Months and months passed, and I was still maddly in love with him. I didnt get actual closure, so it was hard to know where his feelings were with me. I ended up calling him, and he was quite happy to hear from me. We went back to being in a long distance relationship, until he found someone else where he was living. He confessed he felt a stronger connection with her, because she worked in the same field as he did, and obtained physical connection with her. I didnt understand. One moment he was saying I was tailor made for him, and claims he kept a promise ring waiting for me all this time when we move in together. The next moment, I am nothing. I was devastated.
When he broke the news to me, he admitted that he actually tried to commit suicide, just after one week of me breaking up with him. It really scared me. I wish I had known what was going on...
1 month passed after we broke up again when he told me he found someone, I ended up finding an excuse to meet up with him at his state. At the time, I had over a thousand dollars to meet up. At first, he seemed like he didn't want to. Then, I convinced him it'd be emotionally healthy for him. He finally agreed. I was not nervous at all to meet, because I had known him for so long.
He told me I was even more gorgeous in person. It made me feel wonderful. We had drinks, (non alcoholic), and we just discussed our feelings. It made me feel so special. He said he had to get ready for work, so I told him that I will be too sleepy to meet up later. I gave him my hotel room number, and told him to come around if he needs to speak privately.
I went back to my hotel, crying. I was full of so much emotion. I was almost asleep, but then I heard a knock. It was him. He sat us down on the bed, and we talked for so long. In the conversation, I told him that I support him and his new found love. To be honest, I wouldn't care if he was with me or not. I just want him to be happy. He told me he didn't love her. Now that I was in his face, he wanted me. I didn't let it happen.....
I was afraid of getting hurt.....
He asked if he could just sleep the night. I said no.
The next day, we spoke some more. He saw me off on my way to the airport, gave me a bear hug, and said he didn't want me to go......
He presented the promise ring he bought me, and I was so surprised he had kept it. He couldn't let go.....
I couldn't either....so, neither of us did, and I started a new life together in his home town. He's now officially away from me and our baby on a business trip. I cried so hard....I thought he was going to find someone else again. He had given me a picture of us, and a song to play until he came back. Ed sheeran's photograph song whispered "You'll be okay" when I played it every night. Not one single tear doesn't fall down my cheek when I do.
Let's share our stories.
I was in one with my husband. At the time, he was just a boyfriend. He had a stress disorder where he would shut down from time to time, and never tell me what was truly bothering him. He ended up telling me he was being harassed by his friends and co workers about our relationship. I would always feel scared for him, but he would never open up....I began to think he grew bored of me....so I broke up with him.
Months and months passed, and I was still maddly in love with him. I didnt get actual closure, so it was hard to know where his feelings were with me. I ended up calling him, and he was quite happy to hear from me. We went back to being in a long distance relationship, until he found someone else where he was living. He confessed he felt a stronger connection with her, because she worked in the same field as he did, and obtained physical connection with her. I didnt understand. One moment he was saying I was tailor made for him, and claims he kept a promise ring waiting for me all this time when we move in together. The next moment, I am nothing. I was devastated.
When he broke the news to me, he admitted that he actually tried to commit suicide, just after one week of me breaking up with him. It really scared me. I wish I had known what was going on...
1 month passed after we broke up again when he told me he found someone, I ended up finding an excuse to meet up with him at his state. At the time, I had over a thousand dollars to meet up. At first, he seemed like he didn't want to. Then, I convinced him it'd be emotionally healthy for him. He finally agreed. I was not nervous at all to meet, because I had known him for so long.
He told me I was even more gorgeous in person. It made me feel wonderful. We had drinks, (non alcoholic), and we just discussed our feelings. It made me feel so special. He said he had to get ready for work, so I told him that I will be too sleepy to meet up later. I gave him my hotel room number, and told him to come around if he needs to speak privately.
I went back to my hotel, crying. I was full of so much emotion. I was almost asleep, but then I heard a knock. It was him. He sat us down on the bed, and we talked for so long. In the conversation, I told him that I support him and his new found love. To be honest, I wouldn't care if he was with me or not. I just want him to be happy. He told me he didn't love her. Now that I was in his face, he wanted me. I didn't let it happen.....
I was afraid of getting hurt.....
He asked if he could just sleep the night. I said no.
The next day, we spoke some more. He saw me off on my way to the airport, gave me a bear hug, and said he didn't want me to go......
He presented the promise ring he bought me, and I was so surprised he had kept it. He couldn't let go.....
I couldn't either....so, neither of us did, and I started a new life together in his home town. He's now officially away from me and our baby on a business trip. I cried so hard....I thought he was going to find someone else again. He had given me a picture of us, and a song to play until he came back. Ed sheeran's photograph song whispered "You'll be okay" when I played it every night. Not one single tear doesn't fall down my cheek when I do.
