Kicking me out after building a site from scratch

[fleetcompetitor]

So one of my clients kicked me out without any warning after building his site from scratch. It makes me so angry considering the time and effort I put into his site. He could have given me a three days notice or something. But nope, he just ended communication without any leeway. It makes me feel angry and somehow sad as well. Especially that I don't know that reason why he did that. Do you have any advice how I can come around with my anger and sadness?

 

[T.C.]

Some people just can't be trusted.

 

[Corzhens]

Move on and do some other sensible things. Don't let those kind of people give you more stress by thinking about them. Charge it to experience and learn a lesson so at least you gained something.

 

[Gus]

So one of my clients kicked me out without any warning after building his site from scratch. It makes me so angry considering the time and effort I put into his site. He could have given me a three days notice or something. But nope, he just ended communication without any leeway. It makes me feel angry and somehow sad as well. Especially that I don't know that reason why he did that. Do you have any advice how I can come around with my anger and sadness?

Apparently your work on his project was concluded. Did you get paid for the work you did?

 

[Stephanie Harmon]

I suggest you take a break from your work, unwind and do other activities that could relax your mind. I also saw some helpful ways from wiki...

https://www.wikihow.com/Control-Anger-and-Depression

 

[Jason76]

If you got paid then I'd just rub it off and move on.

 

[Rick Ace]

Move on and do some other sensible things. Don't let those kind of people give you more stress by thinking about them. Charge it to experience and learn a lesson so at least you gained something.

This is good advice. You should really be writing an advice column. 😛

Do you have any advice how I can come around with my anger and sadness?

Anger and sadness? What about getting paid for your work? 😱

 

[Corzhens]

@Rick Ace, thank you for the compliment, I am truly flattered. That is the benefit of older people, we have lots more experience and probably we have mellowed that's why positive thinking is our recourse all the time.

 

[fleetcompetitor]

Yeah. I got paid after my work. The tricky part is that my replacement has been messaging me and asking for my help. I can't help but wonder how to stop being paranoid about I am not good enough or I just didn't put my 100% effort on the project. Regardless, I should follow your advice and move on already. I tried several counseling sessions with BetterHelp last week and my psychologist helped me a lot. Right now, I am going to help my partner on his business launch. Hopefully that we can hit a jackpot here.

 

[lunorian]

Yeah. I got paid after my work. The tricky part is that my replacement has been messaging me and asking for my help. I can't help but wonder how to stop being paranoid about I am not good enough or I just didn't put my 100% effort on the project. Regardless, I should follow your advice and move on already. I tried several counseling sessions with BetterHelp last week and my psychologist helped me a lot. Right now, I am going to help my partner on his business launch. Hopefully that we can hit a jackpot here.

Just block the other designer, say you are not a part of the site's development team and to figure it out.

 

[MrHorror]

If you got paid then I'd just rub it off and move on.

I agree with this. It's an odd situation - it always is strange when someone just boots you off of a team with no explanation. But as long as you were paid in full? You did your part and you should move on. They obviously liked your work enough to pay you. Either that or they didn't want to get a bad reputation by stiffing you on the bill. Did you get to finish the site? If you didn't get to fully finish constructing the site - and I had to ponder why this was done to you? My guess would be they felt you were taking too long to complete. Still isn't an excuse for rudely terminating the contract though.