Sex before or after marriage?

You'd better get as much as you can before marriage, because it goes on a downhill slope to less than once a month after you've been married a while.
 
It's up to the couple and when they feel is the right time. I wouldn't mind before marriage, but it would mostly be up to the partner to me.
 
Not to sound distorted or anything but:

Test drive a car before or after you buy it?
 
...I'm still waiting until marriage.

Any questions on my beliefs in regards to this? X)
 
Imma very conservative person yet im still human. I do prefer and urge marriage first before sex. I'm being hypocritical!
 
im PROBABLY never gonna get married .... i have my reasons
but yeah
i say doing it after is more Original.... especially these days

it personally sickens me kids around the age of 14 already want to do it because they think they arent good enough if they don't or something :roll:​
 
I really don't care if people wait for not. I don't really get the point of marriage though either.
 
My attitude: If you are over the age of consent, and are prepared to be open enough to your partner about the discussion of STD, pregency, abortion, and other related topics that go in the territory of sex, you are mature enough to handle sex. If you are not able to meet one of those two of what I just said, you need to wait. That's what I believe in.
 
I agree with Quarter Jack...but at the same time, its by all accounts a sin, never did research to find out if that was a myth or not...
 
Life should ideally be a series of decisions made based on one's moral code, not a series of decisions made based on a book that was written thousands of years ago.
 
After because I taught by my parents to save sex after marriage before they died.
 
It shouldn't matter. The after marriage sex is an old practice that is dying and it deserves that. It wouldn't define who you are.
 
Zerum said:
It shouldn't matter. The after marriage sex is an old practice that is dying and it deserves that. It wouldn't define who you are.

Don't tell the extremely religious ones that lol..
 
I think many people want to try to wait until marriage to have sex, but the heat and passion of that one moment prevent that.
 
Definitely before marriage. Having sex after getting married may reveal the fact that one of the two is not good in bed or that they aren't right for each other ( sexually speaking). Sex is very important in a relationship, and bad sex triggers frustration, which leads to couple fights and why not, divorce.
 
For me, yes it does, as a I'm ultra-conservative about sex & losing my virginity in general. & sex outside of marriage could result in babies out of wedlock, which would be bad for their future.
 
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