Sex before or after marriage?

[chamaradz]

hell yeah , but not the full package , only a half package

 

[Mistress]

As someone who will never marry I think my view is a bit biased, but I think everyone should choose for themselves. There's no right or wrong answer here.

 

[Atrox]

As someone who will never marry I think my view is a bit biased, but I think everyone should choose for themselves. There's no right or wrong answer here.

Agree'd, everyone should be able to choose for themselves.

 

[Forces of Steel]

Marriage is a silly concept. Have sex all you want.

 

[Chris K]

Marriage is a silly concept. Have sex all you want.

I feel the same way, I'm not necessarily religious either but my GF wants to eventually get married. I'm still not sure why marriage is such a huge thing in a womans eyes...

But anyways, have sex whenever you and your partner feel is the right time.

 

[MasterA]

For me either is fine, I mean if you know its her then it doesn't really matter if you do it before or after marriage.

 

[htb24]

I believe in freedom and I don't think you should be prevented from doing something with the person you love because a book says you can't.

 

[Thomasss]

It mainly depends on the relationship, if they want to and both say "yes" then why not? It's up to the people in the relationship, if they are ready and they want to for the right reasons, all the power to them. ^.^

 

[John]

It completely depends on responsibility. QJ nailed my thoughts earlier: as long as you're willing to deal with the potential consequences that can happen after sex (STDs, children, ect), then there is honestly no issues with it, so long as the couple is actually ready to deal with what can happen afterwards.

 

[el canadiano]

I think sex, irrespective of marriage, should only be done if:

- It is consensual
- What you are doing isn't stupidly harmful and you take care of yourselves
- If you are looking to reproduce, go nuts
- If you are not looking to reproduce, protect yourselves

 

[Jason76]

A problem might be attachment after sex. You might really fall in love with that person - but due to circumstances cannot have them.

 

[MrDawn]

I'm not religious aka superstitious as most Christians and some Theists are against pre marital sex until marriage. I'm what you call a non believer or an atheist. Someone who doesn't believe in the existence of gods and doesn't practice a religion.

I've had sex in high school before I ever met my ex wife and got married. I've been divorced going on for 2 years. In that time, I've slept with many girls who come from different beliefs and different walks of life. Some of those girls were non practicing Christians, some of them claimed to be witches, and some of them were atheists and agnostic atheists.

The girl I'm currently with is an atheist like myself. She's also divorced. We have talked about marriage. But we are in agreement that we should wait several years because we're not worried about it.

 

[Bookwormlux]

Sex should be after marriage so that people do not get to misbehave and end up with some life threatening sexually transmitted diseases. If people have sex frequently before marriage, they won't enjoy it when they marry.

 

[Setfragil]

I am not totally against sex before marriage as we need to understand our partner sexual life though some might sees it as act of immorality but sex is a very good topic that must be discussed and understood by partners before they get married.