Should you say sorry if you're not sorry?

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What's your opinion, should you say nothing or lie? 😛
 
"The words you speak that are a lie are sometimes the most valued to the person you say it."

A more interesting question to debate would be:

Is in real life or on the internet the most said sorry but that its not really meant by the person?
 
ZINC said:
What's your opinion, should you say nothing or lie? 😛

Lying is as bad as saying sorry and not meaning it.

There are ways of saying sorry ( depending on the situation) without actually saying sorry.
 
I don't really know what to say to this thread, I'm confused. :shake: I don't think you should say sorry if you don't mean it, it could make things worse.
 
ZINC said:
What's your opinion, should you say nothing or lie? 😛
You don't need to lie, because SORRY means:

a) you feel sorry (feeling)
b) you just want to say "excuse me!" (ethics)

So, I think in many cases you don't need to lie.
And if you really don't feel sorry and don't want to say "excuse me", then it depends of the situation and of the interests (yours and these of the society).
 
Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.
 
Lying about being sorry is sometimes what you have to do, and it doesn't make you a bad person it's just that sometimes, it's just something that keeps a relationship a relationship, and if you dislike the person it's keeping them happy. It's just our heart and our care of human beings.
 
I mean, you shouldn't lie about your feelings, always be honest and tell the truth.
 
Naiwen said:
I mean, you shouldn't lie about your feelings, always be honest and tell the truth.

:lol: But the truth hurts :cry:

I guess you should just say you're sorry. It would make the person feel a little better than saying nothing. It won't kill you.
 
I think you should say sorry, it's better than causing confliction between the other person which can always lead to even bigger problems.
 
Shortie861 said:
I think you should say sorry, it's better than causing confliction between the other person which can always lead to even bigger problems.
True. I think this may be the best time to say sorry ZINC. Lol!!!!
 
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