Trouble w/ a girl

[DracoJesi]

Any advice is welcomed. 🙂

Don't date until you're older. Seriously. I know everybody in middle school is "dating" each other, but 99%+ of middle school relationships end up in long term or even marriage.

Plus isn't it a little weird to say "Hey mom can you drive me to a date with ____ and pick me up in a couple hours?". Get a car and then start dating. If you have a car it (usually) shows that you are mature. And plus girls like a guy that has a car.

What are you talking about? Middle school relationships don't mean anything. It's not even considered "dating." It's all just kids who think they're cool because they have a GF/BF. What can they really do at that age? Watch Spongebob together?

Don't you guys think you are generalizing much. You can't argue that most middle-school and highschool are serious because most of them really aren't. But you're telling me it's impossible for someone to have a serious relationship at that age? Unlikely, yes...not impossible.

Some people are mature from a younger age, it happens.

As for 99%, I'm assuming that's a typo because it's not uncommon for people to be in several relationships before getting married to someone. It can work on the first try, and if it does, great!

But let's be realistic, it usually doesn't happen that way and how many "adult" relationships are truly for the right reasons? It all depends on the individual. Hopefully you get wiser with age, so I'm not at all saying age has no influence,, that would be foolish, but to say age is the determining factor is also foolish.

 

[HappyFox]

Progress slowly ( don't go too slow till you're too late though ). If you're afraid to ask her in person , ask her on the phone. Good luck 😀

 

[DracoJesi]

Progress slowly ( don't go too slow till you're too late though ). If you're afraid to ask her in person , ask her on the phone. Good luck 😀

But try to avoid a note unless you have to, confidence, it helps.

Not that a note can't ever be used for something like this, it's best not to act like your tying to avoid her.

 

[Kino]

But you gotta learn how to do things before you get into high school!

Oh yes, this is coming from someone who has episodes of GGW on his comp. :lol:

Sorry that you can tell I'm straight 😉