Would you rather be in history books for something terrible or be forgotten completely after you die?
I think the right people would remember us in their hearts & they would treasure the good. I wouldn't want to be remembered for the bad.
I don't mind being completely forgotten. I remember when I was about 12 years old, I came across a piece of writing from someone who was sad that he hadn't done anything to be known by people after his death. As if that's all life is about? Enjoy your life and don't worry about whether someone remembers you later on. Those who are currently alive are more important to know you now than after your death.