I rather wash. Drying takes more time to do. Whenever we are with my parents, they know I start washing soon as we are done. We don’t wait for a big pile of dishes, I had always learned to wash as you go along to make it easier in the end.
I rather have my dishwasher do both 😀 Most things get put into there but there are still knives and a skillet that get hand washed. I hate doing it and then I let them air dry on clean towels.