As I have Asperger's and I'm asexual, I don't know what are the signs that a man is into a woman because I really don't care about it personally. Or that a bisexual or lesbian woman is into another female. Can you give me some cues and clues to look for because it triggers anxiety, stress and awkwardness for me personally and it's always a nasty surprise when a male or female already considers me their girlfriend?
I have a similar issue regarding women. Every time I see a woman I like, they always do the subtle signs, so the majority of my time, women just "lose" interest. I really hate these "rules." When they're interested, they don't let you know. It's annoying.
But those that show the love, or interest - I'll lean on them. I almost had a girlfriend a few times, but it's always when they are either in a relationship (boyfriend/husband), or when I have a sickness. I almost kissed a woman, but I didn't want her to get sick, too. But oh my god, I had it. Right in front of me. I am friends with someone who treats me like a friend, but with a little bit of "benefits." I get to dance with her, I get to carry her down stairs, I get to have her sit on me, I get to get a hug from her, and even kissed her. Problem? Husband.
Sigh. She is beautiful, but doesn't know it. She is gorgeous, but like I said. Husband. That's what separates us.
I have another separation, but it's NOT because she has a husband. She claims she doesn't like me or love me, but her actions speak louder than her claims.