Disliking people
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I think certain personalities are condescending and arrogant. In that case, yeah, it's tough to like those people!
I try to avoid them, but often times you cannot go to school or work if you do - and you get called weak if you complain about them.
I try to avoid them, but often times you cannot go to school or work if you do - and you get called weak if you complain about them.
Pretty much most girls during my high school years. Very arrogant people.
The guys weren't? But I do know girls can be just as mean.
I could interact with them without getting snarly facial expressions. Even if they didn't like me. I tried to be nice to everyone, but for some reason, the girls were just beyond arrogant. They treated me like I wasn't human. Not all of them, hence why I said "most," but definitely a lot more than the guys.
Girls seemed pretty mean on Stephen King's Carrie - and I believe it!
They were definitely more likely to issue snarly facial expressions and remarks. Honestly, the best way I can describe it, is that they treated me like I had some kind of mental disability. I can say that because this was a decade ago, when society was completely different towards these conditions; and most certainly, the students in school were childish about them.
Some guys and girls and certainly childish about the mentally disabled and also anyone different, say a different race. Anyway, a lot of the racial stuff is indoctrinated and for girls, is a way to keep them from going with black or Mexican guys.
Of course, fast forward 12 years and I probably legitimately do have a mental disability after all this time of not really knowing why I act certain ways. Under my cardiologist, I'm under investigation for Asperger syndrome as it stems from my primary condition, which is genetic and cardiopulmonary in origin. It might explain my rambles and my complete transformation into a nervous wreck when in front of large groups.
I was looked upon weird my first two years of high school. For instance, some girls would make fun of me in a beginner drumming class because I was very introverted and wore boring clothes.
OK, where I went to school, kids liked people they thought weren't chickens. They liked daredevils. So when I became like that later, I became popular.
Mm, there's this really odd person who appears in the mirror lol
There were some jerks, but they weren't too bad to me.
If you were Muslim however, then they would make their lives an utter misery.
The teachers weren't too friendly to them either, but for different reasons, one time they were freaking out because they thought they had bombs in their bags.
I find that people care a lot less there about those sorts of things there.
In fact, they don't really care about much about anyone and about half the class is missing a good portion of the time as attendance is optional. It probably depends on the subject (and country) though.
Same, although I'm not there right now.
To clarify, I did college in the UK, but somewhere during uni I moved here, dunno when I'll move back.
The biggest problems I usually see with college is that the tutors can be surprisingly incompetent. For six months or so, one didn't even bother showing up, people were fairly upset about that.
Chances are that I either like someone or I'm indifferent to them.
The biggest problems I usually see with college is that the tutors can be surprisingly incompetent. For six months or so, one didn't even bother showing up, people were fairly upset about that.
I generally don't dislike people, although you can push my buttons.
Chances are that I either like someone or I'm indifferent to them.
I'm in the UK too. 🙂
Further education was a pleasure for me. Maybe one or two jerks in the class, but nothing specifically towards me. They were jerks in general. The teachers were great, and the rest of the class was a pleasure to be around.
But high school was a different story.
It all depends on what role they play in your life. Co-workers? Not much you can do. Gotta make a living. Bosses? You're even more hamstrung. Neighbors? Pretty easy. Keep it cordial and keep it moving. If you see them talking to someone else as you're walking towards you building, try and walk fast enough so you can get to the building door and inside the complex before they see you and want to make conversation.
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