Do you let your significant other snoop?

[Katrina]

Do you let your significant other snoop through your phone or PC?

 

[Deleted member 7467]

Yes.

 

[Page]

Nope, no one else users my PC and if they do then I'm still on it with them behind me 😛 Then again, they have no idea how to use the PC regarding other family members in my household.

 

[Deleted member 17779]

Normally I don't care. The only time I wouldn't let them snoop would be during Christmas time. If I'm doing some online shopping, I'll keep that a secret until they open their presents. The same goes for their birthday. However, their birthday is 2 weeks (to the day) after Christmas so I'm usually shopping for his Christmas AND birthday stuff at the same time. It's much easier that way.

 

[Deleted member 49125]

It's not a 'let' per se. My husband & I have nothing to hide so if I need to get on his laptop or he has to get on the desktop, there's nothing that needs to be hidden.
We don't do cell phones.

 

[Katrina]

My husband has access to both my cell and my computer. I only ask that he not scroll through Facebook because it doesn't always bring back the things he viewed for me to see them as well. I hate missing family pictures that were posted so that he could see them and not know who the people are and keep on scrolling.

 

[Deleted member 50656]

My fiancé has her fingerprint added to unlock my phone and knows the password to my desktop and laptop. Vice versa for me too.

More useful if she ever needs to use anything than her going on to snoop but we don't hide anything from one another except shopping

 

[Joshua Farrell]

It depends. If it is a common use item, I don't care. If it is a personal item that I don't want to mix search histories and downloads, I prefer not to have shared access, unless something happens out of the ordinary situation.

 

[Deleted member 56592]

Never!

 

[katos]

It depends. If it is a common use item, I don't care. If it is a personal item that I don't want to mix search histories and downloads, I prefer not to have shared access, unless something happens out of the ordinary situation.

Similar situation here, to be honest.

 

[Page]

I mean I have nothing to hide 😛 not like very very bad naughty things that I'm not keeping from people 😛

 

[MrDawn]

I share my laptop and even let my girlfriend use my phone when she needs to every now and then.

 

[Deleted member 4320]

I wouldn't say snoop but they do look through it sometimes to see what photos I've taken and it doesn't bother me. I have nothing I want to keep secret from them so I have no issue with it haha!

 

[zappaDPJ]

Do you let your significant other snoop through your phone or PC?

Perish the thought! 😱

My other half swipes at her mobile phone like a demented orchestra conductor. Give her any device and I guarantee within a minute you won't recognise it as your own.

So no way is she touching my stuff but I'm having to fix hers almost everyday

 

[Cam]

I believe in privacy for sure. I've got nothing to hide, but I don't need someone always reviewing what I'm saying/doing. That's not a relationship.

 

[PBear]

Nothing to hide.dont care if the wife looks in it or not..and she is the same with me for her phone. and P.C.

 

[PlatinumChaosX]

Single now, but before, there were times I had no choice.

Honestly, if you're in a relationship where you need to have the other half going through your devices. Then there is no trust and you should probably... get out.

Lack of trust it not healthy. Looking through your partners device when they aren't totally comfortable is a form of control.

Real trust is long lasting and if you trust each other, then I would say picking up each others phone to use it for something other than snooping is perfectly ok. Maybe you want to Google something really quickly and your phone is upstairs on charge? But your partner should be comfortable with such a thing.

PC? Well hey, if they had something to hide, private browsing is easy enough.

A lot of this stuff is based on trust and if you're lacking that trust you probably have to ask yourself if you're with the right person?

 

[Henrywrites]

Do you let your significant other snoop through your phone or PC?

I don't do it and I expect her to respect my privacy too.

 

[Cam]

Single now, but before, there were times I had no choice.

Honestly, if you're in a relationship where you need to have the other half going through your devices. Then there is no trust and you should probably... get out.

Lack of trust it not healthy. Looking through your partners device when they aren't totally comfortable is a form of control.

Real trust is long lasting and if you trust each other, then I would say picking up each others phone to use it for something other than snooping is perfectly ok. Maybe you want to Google something really quickly and your phone is upstairs on charge? But your partner should be comfortable with such a thing.

PC? Well hey, if they had something to hide, private browsing is easy enough.

A lot of this stuff is based on trust and if you're lacking that trust you probably have to ask yourself if you're with the right person?

This is an excellent response. I agree 1000000%.

 

[MrDawn]

This is an excellent response. I agree 1000000%.

What if your girlfriend looks like Nina Dobrev and she wants to take a look?

I dunno man. I think I'd roll over 😄