I like to use my Aftershocks when I need to keep an ear out for my surroundings (e.g. if my 3 year old is home with me). Otherwise, if I'm home alone I use my laptop speakers.
I use Sennheiser Momentum over ear headphones. They are somewhat pricey but years of working in the music industry has left me with damaged hearing and the Sennheisers compensate in a number of ways so I can hear clearly without having to resort to listening levels only found in the bass bin of an industrial metal band!