I'm a little past that so nope. I'm not sure if most people in general plan to become parents at that early of an age. You are still experiencing life at that age and a lot of young adults are still in college and have not set themselves into a career. I believe most people would like to be financially stable as well as have time to experience all of the things they will not have time for once they have a child that will take up a good portion of their time.
I am not man but when I read your thread and the replies I don't understand why there are men who want to be a father in an early age. 21 is still young for me and the maturity level of men is not yet developed at that age. Sorry for interrupting with your discussion although you address this To All Young men.
I've three nieces and a nephew and I have to admit, while they are little bundles of joy I would much rather avoid fathering one. Babysitting one is tricky enough as it is, so I'll pass for now. 😛
Maybe. In today's time with women's rights, promiscuity and the decline of the traditional family unit and the "criminalization of biological fatherhood" I wouldn't be so quick to let a woman use me in that manner. Remember those kids will grow up, seek out the truth and strike back at those who separated them from their real father. The biggest crime anyone can commit, besides murder, is participating in the break up of a traditional family.
paine said:
Takes someone really special to be daddy to a kid that not theirs by blood