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Okay, so far my forum owning experience overall has sucked. Big time. I have done nothing except opening closing and opening my forums again, and it's driving me and everyone else here crazy. I owe you guys a big apology for this. Now I'm sure you're going to say that I don't owe you anything, but I feel like I do. Over this last year, it's just been outrageous. Some mornings I go on Marie 1988 and I'm adding new posts and topics and stuff and it's like: Why did I even run a forum to begin with? It's obvious I don't have the drive to be an administrator. I'm the kind of person who's a follower, not a leader. But then I sit back and I'm thankful for what I got. I finally got an awesome community; not many members but quite a few posts. I still get complaints occasionally that I'm not on a host where I can control my forum, and that's not something I want as I have no knowledge of Cpanel or anything of the sort. Ah, I'll just bring over a couple topics from my forum about this.

Hey everyone, I feel like I owe you an explanation, and an apology.

I originally started owning a forum back in 2008 because I was so caught up in the phase, and at first I just wanted to see if I could do it. The first host, as some of you will recall, was with Forumotion. That host was okay, but they kept having downtime at what seemed to be every Friday nights due to some what seemed to be desperately needed "updates". And I was sick and tired of all the PMs and emails of, "is there some reason why we are down yet again?" And I was sick of responding over and over with, "This isn't my fault; I don't know what is going on." And then I found out about all these updates, and it was just driving me mad. Then I moved hosts again and started fresh with another forum. I don't know why but it just seemed to be going in a pattern after a while, and honestly, it is getting pathetic. I didn't move hosts because I had to; I at first moved because I was sick of all the updates, but after a while, it just became a stupid habit that I seriously regret. It seemed like I was never satisfied with any host. I would stay there for a week or two, and then I'd get the urge to move again.

I know all of you, from what used to be Forum Advertiser, down to Forum Promotion, as well as other sites are ticked at me for all this moving around, and I would like to publicly apologize for this. Moving hosts as often as I have done is wrong, and it's a great way to lose what could have been since 2008 millions of members.

I promise that the only way I will ever leave ProPHPBB this time around, is if they shut their doors for good. In which case I will gladly search for another host. But as of right now, nothing, and I mean nothing, beats the awesome services of ProPHPBB.

Again, moving hosts as often as I have done this past year is nothing more than a disgusting habit. I wish to publicly apologize for my behavior, because I really want to see Marie 1988 enter its first year on the Net as a successful forum. I hereby wish to forever abandon my foolish ways of moving hosts, and to stay here at ProPHPBB, and really enjoy the services they offer.

I just really want to say that I'm sorry we have been moving hosts so much. I have used ProPHPBB before and I love these guys. Helpful, fast reliable service, what more can a beginner administrator like me ask for? I promise I will stick around this time. I hope you and future members can forgive me.

How would you say your experience as a forum owner has been overall? I would say that my experience as a forum owner has been nothing but crap, to put it mildly! I have a bad reputation of opening, closing, and opening forums again, and it's ticking me as well as other people off. I almost gave up this forum, but there's no way I can do so when my now co-administrator is still in school, and I love running a forum in general. I really want to stay with one site on one host because I want us to go into our first anniversary next year with happy spirits and good state of minds. Forum Promotion is seriously pissed at me for my behavior, and I can't say that I blame them, because I don't. But I also don't think they realize that I'm not the first, nor will I be the last, forum administrator to have this problem. I'm sure there must have been quite a few forum owners who open and close their doors, and make up excuses not to run a forum anymore, when deep down they really want to. One person in particular keeps trying to tell me that I should give up trying to run a forum, because I always get upset when things don't work out or go my way; which is true, actually. There are times when I get so upset about things not going my way on forums like this that I end up just shutting it down, and then I get the sudden desire to open one again no less than two weeks later! It's a pathetic habit. I'd hate to go back to FP and try to advertise this site again being as it's mine once again. I wouldn't be surprised if they soon banned me for opening and closing my forums too much! Wober is another one I'm too scared to advertise at for the same reasons. The only ones I feel safe at advertising at is Advertise-Forums and Forum Crazy, as they're still relatively small forums, and the staff there at either forum don't go chewing me out every time I get tired of running a forum. In fact, I am thinking of having at least one more co-administrator in case I get another urge to close it, then I'll have more than one someone who's got my back and stuff and who can take over for me if I feel burned out again. I'm tired of getting these stupid feelings. And I resolve to keep Marie 1988 open no matter what. No matter how many bad days in the real life I have, no matter how burned out I feel, I'm just going to grit my teeth and try my luck at this, because I really want to see us go into our first year anniversary; even our second year would be nice. I need your guys' help and support in doing this. Don't give up on me, and please, if I get the urge to close this place down, try to talk me out of it... even if my co administrator has to give me a temporary ban, I give him permission to do that. So, how has your experience as a forum owner been so far?

They're both kind of the same; but they'll give you a general idea as to how my experience has been overall.
 
I've heard it all before and you make yourself sound more convincing each time.

It is so tiring hearing you say something, trying to convince everyone that you mean it this time and then going back on your word.

The forum will be closed within a couple of weeks at absolute best or you will have moved hosts within a couple of weeks. You might like ProphpBB but you'll find some sort of problem with them eventually and move to another free host.

Please don't deny it either.
 
Sbfc said:
I've heard it all before and you make yourself sound more convincing each time.

It is so tiring hearing you say something, trying to convince everyone that you mean it this time and then going back on your word.

The forum will be closed within a couple of weeks at absolute best or you will have moved hosts within a couple of weeks. You might like ProphpBB but you'll find some sort of problem with them eventually and move to another free host.

Please don't deny it either.

I'm sorry, but I am denying it. Especially now that I have staff members and things like that. This is getting insane. I'm sick of all the rude criticism, and I wish you guys would just stop. I am not backing down. I am sticking to it to the end. The only way I will ever move is if ProPHPBB closes it's doors for good. Just watch. We'll make it to that one year mark whether we want to or not. I'm sorry, but I am determined to stick to my word. You can just say what you like because I don't care anymore. I'm sticking with these guys and that's final. You guys make it sound like I'm the only Administrator who ever lived who has this problem. Well, I'm not. I'm sure there are quite a few others who are like this as well. Quit jumping on me like I'm the only person who is like this!
 
Seriously. No forum that is hosted with a free hosting service will ever make it big time.

Go ask Mum for some money for a TLD..
 
Jeeze, you guys, all I'm doing is starting up a discussion about your guys' owning experience overal, and you're making me sound like an immature little kid. Just because I have a problem with owning a forum, doesn't mean there aren't others who don't. Why don't you leave me alone and go read something else if you don't like what I write.
 
Ashley said:
Sbfc said:
I've heard it all before and you make yourself sound more convincing each time.

It is so tiring hearing you say something, trying to convince everyone that you mean it this time and then going back on your word.

The forum will be closed within a couple of weeks at absolute best or you will have moved hosts within a couple of weeks. You might like ProphpBB but you'll find some sort of problem with them eventually and move to another free host.

Please don't deny it either.

I'm sorry, but I am denying it. Especially now that I have staff members and things like that. This is getting insane. I'm sick of all the rude criticism, and I wish you guys would just stop. I am not backing down. I am sticking to it to the end. The only way I will ever move is if ProPHPBB closes it's doors for good. Just watch. We'll make it to that one year mark whether we want to or not. I'm sorry, but I am determined to stick to my word. You can just say what you like because I don't care anymore. I'm sticking with these guys and that's final. You guys make it sound like I'm the only Administrator who ever lived who has this problem. Well, I'm not. I'm sure there are quite a few others who are like this as well. Quit jumping on me like I'm the only person who is like this!

Well how many times have you denied it and how many times have you then gone back on your word? Also if anything's insane, it's the amount of times you apologise, get people to believe you then go back on your word. As for being sick of the rude criticism, you bring it on yourself. If you didn't do this and hadn't done it so many times before, you wouldn't get any stick, your reputation comes before you so I'm not going to believe you anymore.

As for making it to the one year mark, maybe change year to week and I'll believe you. As for your determination you've had it before but you will wake up one day with a lack of any motivation and decide to close the forum impulsively. Also if you don't care what people say, then why post a massive apology to everyone and then say you don't care what they think?

As for not being the only administrator who does this, yes some people do have a reputation for opening/closing forums in the foruming world, but no one I've ever come across has done it to the extent you do it, on this forum or any forum. As for jumping on you, I've given you enough chances and said I'll believe you, and how many times have you then just completely contradicted yourself?
 
If you don't want to believe me, that's fine. I can take a hint. If you don't want to join my forum, that's fine too. I am willing to take that chance, I will post an announcement when we have made it a week, and hint hint: We opened the board on October 11, and it is now October 25. Does that tell you anything? Sure, I may lose the drive off and on, but I am not willing to buckle anytime soon. I will stick to this forum no matter what, and if I have to walk away from it, I will. I have nothing more to say on this subject.
 
Ashley said:
If you don't want to believe me, that's fine. I can take a hint. If you don't want to join my forum, that's fine too. I am willing to take that chance, I will post an announcement when we have made it a week, and hint hint: We opened the board on October 11, and it is now October 25. Does that tell you anything? Sure, I may lose the drive off and on, but I am not willing to buckle anytime soon. I will stick to this forum no matter what, and if I have to walk away from it, I will. I have nothing more to say on this subject.

In that time, you handed the forum over once and then took it over again :roll:, so really you don't deserve the credit you're giving yourself.

Anyway I'll check the What is Going on section and I'm sure in the next week I'll see a topic ''Marie1988 is closed'' or ''Marie 1988 is handed over'' 😉
 
Sbfc said:
Ashley said:
If you don't want to believe me, that's fine. I can take a hint. If you don't want to join my forum, that's fine too. I am willing to take that chance, I will post an announcement when we have made it a week, and hint hint: We opened the board on October 11, and it is now October 25. Does that tell you anything? Sure, I may lose the drive off and on, but I am not willing to buckle anytime soon. I will stick to this forum no matter what, and if I have to walk away from it, I will. I have nothing more to say on this subject.

In that time, you handed the forum over once and then took it over again :roll:, so really you don't deserve the credit you're giving yourself.

Anyway I'll check the What is Going on section and I'm sure in the next week I'll see a topic ''Marie1988 is closed'' or ''Marie 1988 is handed over'' 😉

That's a bet right there! 😉
 
Incogneto said:
Seriously. No forum that is hosted with a free hosting service will ever make it big time.

Go ask Mum for some money for a TLD..
Sorry but that is false. it happens sometimes,but not often.

wwe-europe is on zetaboards and has over 1000 members and most of which are active.

I can give more examples aswell 🙂.
 
NBK*Twitch said:
Incogneto said:
Seriously. No forum that is hosted with a free hosting service will ever make it big time.

Go ask Mum for some money for a TLD..
Sorry but that is false. it happens sometimes,but not often.

wwe-europe is on zetaboards and has over 1000 members and most of which are active.

I can give more examples aswell 🙂.


I too have seen forums on free hosts that really thrive quite well. I don't know any names off the top of my head, but I have defnetly heard of this happening. So you never know, in the end we could end up doing quite well.
 
NBK*Twitch said:
Incogneto said:
Seriously. No forum that is hosted with a free hosting service will ever make it big time.

Go ask Mum for some money for a TLD..
Sorry but that is false. it happens sometimes,but not often.

wwe-europe is on zetaboards and has over 1000 members and most of which are active.

I can give more examples aswell 🙂.

1000 Members is the big time?
 
Well, to steer in back in the original direction of the topic, My admin experience as of yet in terms of hosting has been good. I use Host Gator, which has generally good reviews and credibility, not really any downtime, and cheaper than a lot of other places.

As for moderation, that's been a little tougher. I've had to deal with inactive staff consistently, having to replace them all the time, because one didn't do as I asked of them or didn't stop by enough, without leaving me any warning as to their leave. Also, I had to deal with a particularly annoying hacker in June which was very annoying, but nothing that I couldn't do it.

Then, I had an admin go rogue in a way on me, accusing me and my actual co-admin of doing something to this person that we never did and started mass-deleting posts around the forum, so we had to deal with that.

Today, I had to also remove our chatroom temporarily as several members were going crazy up to the point that it would've offended any other member on my forum. I offered them a chance to move to a private chat channel, but they didn't take it so I just removed it for the rest of the day.

So yeah, moderation has been pretty annoying, but I'm willing to deal with it like I have since February.
 
Jaosals said:
Well, to steer in back in the original direction of the topic, My admin experience as of yet in terms of hosting has been good. I use Host Gator, which has generally good reviews and credibility, not really any downtime, and cheaper than a lot of other places.

As for moderation, that's been a little tougher. I've had to deal with inactive staff consistently, having to replace them all the time, because one didn't do as I asked of them or didn't stop by enough, without leaving me any warning as to their leave. Also, I had to deal with a particularly annoying hacker in June which was very annoying, but nothing that I couldn't do it.

Then, I had an admin go rogue in a way on me, accusing me and my actual co-admin of doing something to this person that we never did and started mass-deleting posts around the forum, so we had to deal with that.

Today, I had to also remove our chatroom temporarily as several members were going crazy up to the point that it would've offended any other member on my forum. I offered them a chance to move to a private chat channel, but they didn't take it so I just removed it for the rest of the day.

So yeah, moderation has been pretty annoying, but I'm willing to deal with it like I have since February.

*sigh* a decent reply, finally! Anyway, yeah it sounds like you've been through alot. I'm hoping to have the best experience I've ever had.
 
I've owned loads of forums over the past year, and some have made their thousands of posts marks.

I found that once I bought a hosting package and domain everything boosted, as well as my drive to keep it up and running.

I never felt safe with a free host. I always felt like I wasn't in control.
 
That Marie 1988 forum keeps opening, then closing, then opening, then closing.

It's ridiculously funny.
 
Incogneto said:
Seriously. No forum that is hosted with a free hosting service will ever make it big time.

I beg to differ. My site was started on Invisionfree in 2004, and then converted to Zetaboards whenever we had the option. We purchased a domain about a year after the site started, and after some time rose to a quite good google position. By October of '08 we had about 2500 members, and were getting ~5,000 page views/day. The only reason I switched from IF/ZB was because the data on the host's server (s6) was deleted, and they had to do a rollback, resulting in us losing about 5 months worth of everything (including 1000+ user accounts, 40k posts, a few skins, etc.)

At any rate, we've been continuing growth slightly faster since being off the free host.

I think you can have a successful forum on a free host if you have a good domain. That's what did it for me, anyway.
 
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