So, there is this girl that i have been talking to for like 3 months. And she always promises to never ignore my texts or calls. Then the other day she did just that all day. And then yesterday she did that all day, and she even got some other guy to answer my call and cuss me out. I did nothing wrong to her. When she parties she ignores me and treats me like crap. Then when the party is over, she calls me and wants me to come over. Last night it was at 6 in the morning, and yet i still did it. Can any of you give me some advice on this girl? She always promises things and doesnt go through with them, and when we are anywhere with other people, she just acts like we just met, and that we are just friends. She cant even keep a little promise like no smoking cigarettes, because that to me is very unattractive, and i hate. She knows that but doesnt really care. And when she asks me to do something, I do, and if she wants me not to do it, I dont. She tells me not to talk to certain girls, but when I tell her I dont really want her to talk to certain guys, shes says she cant do that.
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- Thread starter Mr. Money
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Don't let yourself be used. Turn down her advances until she wants to be serious with you. If you feel like you're too mature for the silly games then show it by standing up to her and telling her how you want things to be.
I'll probably get slated for saying this but..............
She's using you. She knows she has you dangling on a string and that she can wrap you around her little finger any time she wants to. Every time she says "jump"..you are asking "how high?" I hate girls who act like this, it's selfish, mean and heartless.
My personal view is to drop her like a hot potato, sometimes this is the wake up call the girl needs and if it's not, what have you got to lose? Have you ever heard the saying "treat them mean, keep them keen"? Once she sees that you are not the doormat she expects she will either treat you with the respect you deserve or keep clear, if it's the latter choice then let her become someone else's puppet master, leaving you free to find a girl who appreciates you for who you are.
You're worth more than that....remember it 😉
She's using you. She knows she has you dangling on a string and that she can wrap you around her little finger any time she wants to. Every time she says "jump"..you are asking "how high?" I hate girls who act like this, it's selfish, mean and heartless.
My personal view is to drop her like a hot potato, sometimes this is the wake up call the girl needs and if it's not, what have you got to lose? Have you ever heard the saying "treat them mean, keep them keen"? Once she sees that you are not the doormat she expects she will either treat you with the respect you deserve or keep clear, if it's the latter choice then let her become someone else's puppet master, leaving you free to find a girl who appreciates you for who you are.
You're worth more than that....remember it 😉
InfiniteJest
Paragon
Drop her faster than an AT&T call. Unless you can get sex out of it first. Then sex, then drop. /shallow
Okay, if she talks to other guys and ignores you and everything, trust me..Ive been through it so many times. She is using you for a "backup" just incase she doesnt get her way with some other dude. She may say she loves you and all that and you guys may have sex, but the way she is, it pretty much means nothing to her. You need to step up, quit getting walked all over and stand up for yourself and get in her face and tell her you will not stand to be treated the way you are and you will not be whipped and to be in the background for her to come running to when she doesnt get her way. To be honest and straight up with you, she doesnt care for you, shes using you, and you need to drop her quicker then you can say bye.
*what MissTake said* 😳 lol, seriously though - you should let her go. Never seems easy but trust me, there are other bigger, better and tastier fish in the sea.
lol if she's addicted, that would be much harder than you're making out.Mr. Money said:
katy perry is hot
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You're not being used as a backup at all. You're just plain being used. The stuff you said about how she has guys pick up her phone and say shit to you and whenever you're out she doesn't talk to you and acts as if she doesn't know you just further proves that. However, if she does ask you to come over and you get some from her, I wouldn't drop the relationship. This is coming from a guy's point of view, I know the girls here will tell you to cut it off now but that's just what I'd do in your spot.
Watch Me Sink
Madly Diligent
Mr. Money said:
Bono said:
What Johnathan and Misstake said.
MissTake said:
:cheer:
Absolutely spot on.
Tell her you have contracted an STD, let her go through the embarassment of telling all the other guys she's been with, that they have to visit the clinic too, because that is what the clinic will make her do !!.
Then ignore her, a relationship is a two way thing, not a one way street.
Shiny Star
Addicted
Dump her! She's using you!
Well dude i've been there more times then i can count. I would say step up and be a man and take control. When she ignores you or acts like she just meet you. Speak up and be like ........ in front of her and her friends or the other dudes. Trust me Just step up<br /><br />-- 07 Oct 2010, 16:35 --<br /><br />i'm guess your a pretty nice guy. And she knows it
InfiniteJest
Paragon
Oh yeah, be like "Is there a reason you're pretending you don't know me when i've seen you naked countless times?" She'll never do that again!
InfiniteJest
Paragon
True, so then "Stop acting like you've just met me we've had consensual sexual intercourse on many different occasions"paine said:
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