HELP :(

[Deleted member 7467]

I'm in love with my bestfriend, have been for a while. I hate seeing her with other guys and always find faults in everyone she picks. We're always with each other, and pretty much act like we're dating, just as friends though.

Tonight, she messaged me saying, "I Love you." Nothing out of the ordinary. Then she went on to ask me if I remember when I told her I have only been in love once.

After asking that, she goes onto give me a scenario about what my views are on her confessing her love to someone that she doesn't want to ruin what she currently has with.

We also got to talking about one of my exes as well as a girl I'm talking to now. She admitted she hates seeing me with a girlfriend because she feels ignored. She now won't tell me who she is secretly in love with because I won't tell her.

So, my point being is, I'm pretty sure I'm the one she's talking too but the doubt is enough to keep me from saying anything. What should I do? 🙁

 

[Rick Ace]

That's one heck of a situation. 🙁 It's hard to tell from across a forum.

(Are you male?)

 

[Deleted member 7467]

No, I am female. Yea, I'm male, I thought everyone knew that D:

 

[Gizmo]

No, I am female.

Sex change or something?

You're a teen right? Why not ask around on teen websites about this type of advice. They would be able to help more.

 

[Deleted member 7467]

No, I am female.

Sex change or something?

You're a teen right? Why not ask around on teen websites about this type of advice. They would be able to help more.

Eh, I trust my FP pals more. I just want thoughts now.

 

[Gizmo]

I wasn't thinking about the trusting side of things. I was meaning you would be better talking to mostly teens as married people wouldn't know what to do and they would just give crappy suggestions. 😉

 

[Deleted member 7467]

I wasn't thinking about the trusting side of things. I was meaning you would be better talking to mostly teens as married people wouldn't know what to do and they would just give crappy suggestions. 😉

Hey now, that is not true. MissTake for instance, is one of the best for handling these types of situations. Speaking of that, I need to PM her.

 

[Branden]

That's one heck of a situation. 🙁 It's hard to tell from across a forum.

(Are you male?)

http://snpr.cm/D0Ddtk.png

I always check the profiles first.

Anyways, Matt, if you like her and you have a feeling that she likes you, just pop the question.

 

[Luke]

It's best to just tell her than watch her hook up with someone else or die without never trying a relationship. The worst she can say is no.

 

[Gizmo]

I wasn't thinking about the trusting side of things. I was meaning you would be better talking to mostly teens as married people wouldn't know what to do and they would just give crappy suggestions. 😉

Hey now, that is not true. MissTake for instance, is one of the best for handling these types of situations. Speaking of that, I need to PM her.

Yes, Andi is just one of the best for anything. 😉

 

[Luke]

Just thought of something, if you can't honestly tell each other maybe it's not going to work? 😛

 

[Deleted member 7467]

Just thought of something, if you can't honestly tell each other maybe it's not going to work? 😛

Nahh, if I am the one shes referring too, she's afraid if it doesn't work out, then our existant relationship will be ruined. And we are extremely close.

Same for me

 

[Rick Ace]

You could say something moderate? Instead of totally accepting your love, you can take smaller steps forward, and see how that goes.

No, I am female. Yea, I'm male, I thought everyone knew that D:

Nowadays, there are a lot of confusing relationships, so I had to ask. 🙂 Sorry. I did know...

 

[Richard Hayes]

I wasn't thinking about the trusting side of things. I was meaning you would be better talking to mostly teens as married people wouldn't know what to do and they would just give crappy suggestions. 😉

Are you married? No so don't speak for those who are, most people who are married will have been in similar situations before and will have more experience to pass onto younger members :shake:

Bad Bieber, my advice is to trust your instincts when making the decision as most of the time you gut feeling will be the right one and what ever the outcome you can least take experience from it.

 

[MissTake]

Pm'd Matey 😉

 

[NBK*Twitch]

Well look at it this way,you can never know the answer to a question you do not ask about.

I think you should simply tell her the truth of how you feel and iif she does have feelings for you, I am sure she would love to become more then friends.

Trust me I have held back before and regretted it later... She moved to montana and I never got to ask her 🙁. I never did date for awhile after that.

 

[alfred01]

"Bad", I hate putting it to you like this but your so young that you have a world of romantic pain to live through in the year's to come. Do yourself a favour and tell her. Being in Love has inherent risks that you can't avoid. You could be in for a very pleasant surprise!! Good Luck Son

 

[Deleted member 7467]

"Bad", I hate putting it to you like this but your so young that you have a world of romantic pain to live through in the year's to come. Do yourself a favour and tell her. Being in Love has inherent risks that you can't avoid. You could be in for a very pleasant surprise!! Good Luck Son

Bit late on the draw, she told me the very next day.