Some people love stirring up trouble on forums; trolling members and just being mean. How do you discourage cyber bullying on your forum? This might be an important thing to consider, since cyber bullying is considered a crime in some places and a forum owner who tolerates abuse or harassment of forum members might end up civilly liable.
The only way to beat a bully is for people to publically object to their bullying in front of others.
If I see a bully on my forum, I will bust them out on it, on the forum, embarass them and they usually don't return after that. It also seems to make people feel good when you stand up for them in the public.
That is what I did when I witnessed it during my school days as well!
Not everyone can cope with it. While you might be able to, that doesn't mean everyone else can. What if they have no one to turn to? Then they are alone battling depression and that isn't a good thing at all...
This kind of thinking is why we have problems with bullying in our society.
Oh, you're getting bullied? You're just not mature enough to deal with your emotions. You're on your own.
This kind of thinking is what causes suicide, my friend. Maybe if people took bullying more seriously, people experiencing bullying wouldn't be forced over the edge.