Well, the hardest step for many people is keeping their butt on the chair, as one of my English professors told me. Of course, writing in and of itself is not experience, but neither is not writing. As many writers will tell you (e.g.,
the guys at CopyBlogger), a lot of people will say they are writers but have not even the piles of crap to show for it, much less the published, polished pieces.
Another difficulty aspiring writers have is editing, editing, editing. The process is not done just because words are down, as they may not be
the words. For instance, a thirteen line poem I wrote was completed in about an hour, but I have since edited it several times, twenty or so minutes each time, with intent to edit it once more, as I am not pleased with my reliance on several adverbs, and am concerned that two lines might suggest a meaning I do not intend because of poor use of grammar.
As suggested in my mention of
CopyBlogger, it might also be helpful to read what other writers have to say, or what has been said about other writers. For example, here are quotations I have extracted from works I recently read, the first two being from articles at
CB:
Writers never stop fearing that what they write isn't good enough.
— Taylor Lindstrom, "
How to Show Up and Write."
Good writing is like a conversation between the writer and the reader.
— Logan Zanelli, "
7 Tips for an Authentic and Productive Writing Process."
Meek young men grow up in libraries, believing it their duty to accept the views, which Cicero, which Locke, which Bacon, have given, forgetful that Cicero, Locke, and Bacon were only young men in libraries, when they wrote these books.
— Ralph Waldo Emerson,
The American Scholar.
A professional writer behaves like a professional writer long before being paid to be a professional writer.
— Jonathan Crossfield, "
How to Become a Writer."
If one looks at the first drafts of even the greatest writers, like Tolstoi and Dostoevski, one sees that literary art does not come flying like Athena, fully formed, from Zeus' head. Indeed, the first-draft stupidity of great writers is a shocking and comforting thing to see.
— John Gardner, "What Writers Do."
This last quotation is most important to me, as there seems a tendency to view great writers as being on a higher plain, and if only we could reach it we would write well, too. In actuality, writing is a constant mental struggle, even — or especially — for those who have achieved greatness.
The difference between the writer and "aspiring" writer may come down to who beats herself up enough about how hopelessly bad a writer she is to accept the defeat that is never destiny, but always a very active choice.
And it also comes down to who learns through practice that there is no apex to reach as a writer, only that point when you start getting lucky breaks and good turns through your hard work and patience beyond what many "aspiring" writers think is patience.
In regards to inspiration, everyone has a wealth of experience to share, and a lot of cultural baggage to analyze, and reading a lot of books is one way people realize this since the writers who published those books have often done their own soul searching during the ordeal. As Irish writer Richard Steele put it, "Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body."