Has someone ever done you wrong but you decided to let it go because it'd be more trouble than it's worth? or do you always pursue and try to make things "right"?
I'm a forgiving person, but I still believe in having boundaries. I do believe in some reconciliation but that doesn't mean that it has to happen immediately after the initial situation happened. It could take months or years even.
Life's too short to harbor grudges. I generally won't pursue a grudge but I do have a high regard for people who are prepared to admit they were wrong and apologize.