Me asking out a girl...

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Well I need some advice..first off, I'm 13 and I want to ask out this girl I REALLY like in my grade..I think she may like me. Because, I mean..we ALWAYS make eye contact, flirt (somewhat), etc...

And I needed a little bit of help with this.

FIRST OFF...well, at my school, lots of people ask out people on MSN and that stuff rather in person..if that fine or not?

Secondly, what should I say when asking her out whether its online or in person. Such as asking "Will you be my girlfriend" or "Will you go out with me"? I would like to know what sounds better to a girl and more convincing.

And other advice would be greatly appreciated...thank for for all who help me 🙂.
 
You can do it online but sometimes you are more likely to a yes response in person

I wouldn't recommend actually saying 'would you go out with me' or something along those lines but maybe saying how you feel or asking to go out as friends and see what happens may work
 
I'd say ask her to the movies (or something similar).

And do it in person.

I hate people that ask people out/dump people over text or IM... It sickens me to see just how dissociative (for want of a better word) society has come to be.
 
lol

As above, bite the bullet and ask her out for a night on the....I mean movies.

You're not going to commit to this girl so just be calme and have fun with it, don't be scared of what she may think, I mean, the worst she can say is no...
 
For your age, will you go out with me, and in person, it is so much more effective in person. TRUST me! I had a girl once, dumped me over a text.... that is so low..... and asking someone out over msn is not that bad but if you already know here and talk to her and already have this stable relationship then just ask her face to face. if your toooooo neverous then msn haha either way if you like her no matter what will stop you 🙂
 
My advice would be never ask a girl out on msn ! also do you really think its the right time to ask the girl? do you know her very well? bring her out have a nice time then ask her later on dont just say will you go out with me and thats that 🙂 make her feel comfortable have a good time with her 🙂
 
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For your age, will you go out with me, and in person, it is so much more effective in person. TRUST me! I had a girl once, dumped me over a text.... that is so low..... and asking someone out over msn is not that bad but if you already know here and talk to her and already have this stable relationship then just ask her face to face. if your toooooo neverous then msn haha either way if you like her no matter what will stop you 🙂
What has age got to do with anything? ~confuse~
 
i would say ask her in person. much more personal. i think if possible you should go hang out at the mall, go to a movie that sort of thing. even with a group of friends! like someone said, the worst she can say is no!
 
extentds said:
Well I need some advice..first off, I'm 13 and I want to ask out this girl I REALLY like in my grade..I think she may like me. Because, I mean..we ALWAYS make eye contact, flirt (somewhat), etc...

And I needed a little bit of help with this.

FIRST OFF...well, at my school, lots of people ask out people on MSN and that stuff rather in person..if that fine or not?

Secondly, what should I say when asking her out whether its online or in person. Such as asking "Will you be my girlfriend" or "Will you go out with me"? I would like to know what sounds better to a girl and more convincing.

And other advice would be greatly appreciated...thank for for all who help me 🙂.


*sigh* I remember the days i was your age, felt exactly how you do - did similar things.

Mate, you need to wait till it's dark outside and take her to a nice quiet place wherever you live (not too quiet though, she'll think you're up to something else (if you know what i mean ~wink~ ~wink~ )). Then you need to face her, take her by the hand and say something subtle such as..."Your eyes look lovely in the street light" or something similar. She'll eventually catch on and within a few minutes you'll be a couple ~smile~
 
Lol Christian that's so cheesy.

Just say, " Oi love fancy a shag. "

Should work -lol-
 
Close it? But we're having fun.

And we need a status report...?
 
I think that 13 is a little too young, but that's just my opinion. I'd at least wait until high school, and become good friends with her in the mean time. In that time you may realize that she isn't right for you -🙁
 
aзVan1lla ™ said:
Lol Christian that's so cheesy.

Just say, " Oi love fancy a shag. "

Should work -lol-


Well that is the northern way of asking... -lol- -lol-
 
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