My life!

[2008paul]

I know this is not a support site so feel free to delete this topic.

Well, today my sister walked out as her and my mum was keep fighting, So my mum try to walk out and do something stupid but I stooped her as she is blind so mange to get her to go back in.

So, Was talking to my dad about this and it ended up with me saying this to him

-paul- says:
What a crap father you have bin. 
By dad

So now I've got no dad and from the day me and my GF split up I've bin depressed and suicide and now because of all this it don't help and I so feel like I just want to go and do something stupid.

 

[wednesday]

Paul...im sorry you are going through an obviously disturbing time....just try to remember that how you feel at this moment will not last, and know that it will only get better. You are feeling at your lowest....so have faith that this time next week it will be a completely different story.Trust me on this....everyone hurts xxxx
Do you have any other family to talk too bar your mum and dad?

 

[katy perry is hot]

Paul, please don't be worried. Committing suicide isn't going to help.

I suggest you see a therapist or something, or find a friend to talk to. First thing you need to do, is call your father, and apologize. That's a definite must for you.

Everyone has their low points in life.

 

[Mike]

Talk to your sister, the fact she's left home because of it must mean she's fed up and feels similar to you.

Don't feel suicidal, i've been pretty depressed myself recently so i kind of know whats going through your head - Suicide is not worth thinking about at all

 

[wednesday]

My philosophy is...no matter how low i feel, no matter how much crap i have going on in my life...no matter what happens, there will always be someone out there in a worse position. So try to think positively.xxx

 

[hcfwesker]

Taking you own life will not solve your problems. And all it will do, is hurt those around you.

Do you really want those you love, to blame themselves for the rest of their lives, on why you took yours.

So, you lost someone you loved, and your family situation isn't squeky clean. Big deal. It's life. It's not perfect.

Things do get better. You're just hitting rock bottom, we've all been there. It's how you pull yourself up, not bringing yourself down further, that defines who you are.

 

[Rod]

My philosophy is...no matter how low i feel, no matter how much crap i have going on in my life...no matter what happens, there will always be someone out there in a worse position. So try to think positively.xxx

I agree with you totally... if I feel that terrible I usually take a nap and then I wake up and at least I feel refreshed, then I can think about how to deal with my situation.

 

[2008paul]

Thanks for reply people.
I feel a bit better but they no way I am going to talk to my dad again.

 

[wednesday]

Excellent news Paul..... just allow time to do the mental healing.

 

[Nathan]

I know this is not a support site so feel free to delete this topic.

Your right about that, but that's the good thing about FP, we're a Community here to help with anything at all.

Please mate, get the idea out of your head, suicide as the others said will only leave your family and friends devastated and it's not worth it at all. Ive had a mate thinking about doing this due to really personal issues but i tried to help him myself and found that i couldn't get through to him so i insisted that he went and saw a professional, he did and his all fine now, hanging around like we used to, life is good.

One of the reasons you shouldn't even do it.

It's good that you've come to senses and i hope you don't think about it again .

 

[2008paul]

Thank you, Feel better now..
Still not talking to my dad though.