Probably the saddest FP Thread ever lol

[InfiniteJest]

Re: Well..

Oh dear god. Dad... why are you so immature? You're almost 50 for god's sake. You'll throw a fit because we don't do exactly as you instructed? You're so paranoid you're doubting even your wife. I am sick of your paranioa.

I can kind of relate to this. How do you usually talk to your dad? Is it usually an angry conversation? Are you always fighting? If you are, maybe try and be friendlier (I know, parents can be irritating) even if he's being a grouch. This way, he'll know he's loved, and won't be paranoid. Just a thought.

 

[Naiwen]

Re: Well..

Oh dear god. Dad... why are you so immature? You're almost 50 for god's sake. You'll throw a fit because we don't do exactly as you instructed? You're so paranoid you're doubting even your wife. I am sick of your paranioa.

I can kind of relate to this. How do you usually talk to your dad? Is it usually an angry conversation? Are you always fighting? If you are, maybe try and be friendlier (I know, parents can be irritating) even if he's being a grouch. This way, he'll know he's loved, and won't be paranoid. Just a thought.

I usually talk normally and politely to him, and then he'll start drama. It seems that he cannot live his life without causing drama. He's the one who provokes things, usually.

 

[InfiniteJest]

Re: Well..

Oh dear god. Dad... why are you so immature? You're almost 50 for god's sake. You'll throw a fit because we don't do exactly as you instructed? You're so paranoid you're doubting even your wife. I am sick of your paranioa.

I can kind of relate to this. How do you usually talk to your dad? Is it usually an angry conversation? Are you always fighting? If you are, maybe try and be friendlier (I know, parents can be irritating) even if he's being a grouch. This way, he'll know he's loved, and won't be paranoid. Just a thought.

I usually talk normally and politely to him, and then he'll start drama. It seems that he cannot live his life without causing drama. He's the one who provokes things, usually.

I'm gonna take a line from The Beatles here "Let it Be" when he tries to start something, just avoid furthering it. That doesn't mean be like "I'm not talking to you because you're starting drama" that means just being like "ok dad i'm sorry i'll try to do the wash at exactly 3am next time" in other words, just put up with him, it'll make your life easier.

 

[Naiwen]

I try, but I'm fed up and as soon as I can, I'll move out from this place.

 

[InfiniteJest]

I try, but I'm fed up and as soon as I can, I'll move out from this place.

Well, until then, my advice will save you lots of trouble. My brother has a similar deal going on.

 

[Naiwen]

I try, but I'm fed up and as soon as I can, I'll move out from this place.

Well, until then, my advice will save you lots of trouble. My brother has a similar deal going on.

Yes, it will and patience will save me. But he acts like a dictator in the house and he can't accept any criticism from us when he's always criticising my mom. He acts like a spoiled child.

 

[wigsaw]

Just do your best. My father and I fought all the time until one day it just stopped. Idk why but we both clicked

For an entire year I planned moving out and now I dont even think about it. You get two parents in this world and thats it.. Dont throw them away

 

[PlayOn]

saddest thread ever.

 

[wigsaw]

Care to add a letter?

 

[agentmanningctu]

Santa,

Buy me a widdle baby teddy bear for Cwissmas. Pweettty pweez?

Agent

PS, Mommy's making cookies!

 

[katy perry is hot]

I try, but I'm fed up and as soon as I can, I'll move out from this place.

Well, until then, my advice will save you lots of trouble. My brother has a similar deal going on.

Yes, it will and patience will save me. But he acts like a dictator in the house and he can't accept any criticism from us when he's always criticising my mom. He acts like a spoiled child.

I think you're leaving stuff out. First, how are you criticizing him? Are you yelling at him and do you have an attitude when you speak to him? Or are you just walking up calmly asking to speak to him? I'll bet it's the former. As for criticizing your mom, that's something him and your mom have to deal with. My parents have been divorced for a long time now, and I HIGHLY suggest you leave it to them, unless it gets physically violent. Just let them work it out, because you involving yourself will not help anything.

 

[Garfiun]

I just want to slap my boss, Im being accused of everything.

 

[wigsaw]

Garfiun is it serious accusations or stupid things?

 

[Naiwen]

Yes, sometimes he hits her and she does nothing, because in Asian cultures, everything is the woman's fault. I am speaking calmly to him.

 

[wigsaw]

Well thats abuse regardless of culture..

 

[InfiniteJest]

Anyone have advice for my letter? I'm in the dark here on what to do :shrug:

 

[katy perry is hot]

Well thats abuse regardless of culture..

Not really. It's abuse in our culture. In other cultures, it's normal. However, it still is illegal.

If things get really bad with your dad, you aught to call the police. Not some sort of hotline bullshit, but the actual police.

 

[wigsaw]

Sorry thats what I meant **** Culturally fine but still illegal

Agree with your post