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Before i marry this girl at work i would like to go out on some dates with here first 😛

how do i lead up to the "asking?"

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tommarow i'll say

"your hair looks nice today...then again, it always looks nice"

should i have a "day to day" planner on things to say/do and then have "backup things to say/do"
 
How long have you known her? Have you been friends for long, or have a relationship?.
 
You're going to marry a girl you've only known for 2 years and haven't dated yet? Well there's your first mistake haha.
 
I think he was making a lighthearted comment, guys 😛
 
just act natural, be yourself and make her laugh, give her compliments and say it like you mean it. Then in a few days ask her if she want to go for a drink sometime and see what happens
 
Here is my advise, one don't think about marrying her until you have dated her for a good amount of times or for a year or two depending. I think that people jump into marriage sometimes then regret it later on, because right now she seems amazing to you but you don't know how she really is because you haven't dated her yet. Either way i would date her and get to know her before you jump into marriage 😛 and also just be yourself man, don't try to be anyone but you if she doesn't like you the way you are then you're talking to the wrong girl 🙂
 
I agree with Jimbo. People definitely jump into relationships way too fast. How old are you anyway?
 
What Jimmy said, But I think only you will know when your ready. (obviously having a good relationship/dating first...)
 
she wasn't there at work today but i am counting on tommarow.

i just don't know what to say all that much when im around since i don't want to say the wrong thing 🙂
 
Just ask how her she is doing and go from there. The conversation will determine how your future with her will play out.
 
i told her i liked her dress she had on today and we had a brief convo after that

aahhhh..........im speechless around her(she takes my breathe away)

i plan on asking her out to lunch this week

i'm trying to impress her guys...please those that pray, pray for me...and her 🙂
 
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