Sex Before Marriage

Luga said:
Well,sex is a sacred commitment between man and a woman
It can be that.. But it could also an activity done just to pass the time. Each person has their own personal views on the significance of having sex, and those views can change with each sexual partner they have.
 
I personally think that sex before marriage is ok and that it is up to the people who are having sex and if you wait to have sex until you get married,i would say that the man or the women would be cheating.
 
People have their rights to do whatever they want. It is not my problem for one and two.. It is not part of my responsibilities. If something wrong happens, only god knows what it would do to you.

I'm 20 and never had sex. Not saying I can't, I just thought i'll wait for the right time. When? Iono. I have lots in my plate at the moment, who knows what would happen if I tried.

All I'm saying is sex isn't my top priority.
 
Its very interesting to read in this thread all these young guys talking about marriage and its importance with regard to sex (in varying degrees)

Now for me, marriage is outdated and less and less people are marrying so what it has to do with a sexual committment between 2 people I do not know.

A piece of paper has never come between me and sex and certainly never will in the future for sure.
 
birdy said:
Its very interesting to read in this thread all these young guys talking about marriage and its importance with regard to sex (in varying degrees)
Funny part is, they are all probably virgins who will change their tune as soon as they get some.
..........Which will probably happen BEFORE they get married.
:lol:
 
theezy said:
birdy said:
Its very interesting to read in this thread all these young guys talking about marriage and its importance with regard to sex (in varying degrees)
Funny part is, they are all probably virgins who will change their tune as soon as they get some.
..........Which will probably happen BEFORE they get married.
:lol:



Oh you made me laugh theezy - first smile of the day and how VERY true :lol:
 
There is nothing wrong with it and it is somebody's choice what they do in the bedroom. People who think sex is ''sacred'' need to realise this is the 21st Century...
 
Sbfc said:
People who think sex is ''sacred'' need to realise this is the 21st Century...
If people think sex is sacred, then they are entitled to think that way. What does the 21st century have to do with anything? :shrug:

While sometimes sex can just be a meaningless pass time, I think I CAN be sacred and a meaningful thing, you just have to find that one person that makes it into that.
 
theezy said:
Sbfc said:
People who think sex is ''sacred'' need to realise this is the 21st Century...
If people think sex is sacred, then they are entitled to think that way. What does the 21st century have to do with anything? :shrug:

While sometimes sex can just be a meaningless pass time, I think I CAN be sacred and a meaningful thing, you just have to find that one person that makes it into that.

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Sex is one of the best things in life that are meant to be free as the old music saying states, so I'm of the following opinion:

We only do live once in this world, why not achieve major pleasure by doing what you like? Fuxk 'em if you call you an sex addict, everybody's got an addiction and If sex is mine, let me live my life in peace and start banging out !

Sex for the winner bros, it helps in so many differente ways your body and state of mind, to those who are against it in any way: Getalifeee ! Start doing it right away ! You don't even know what you've been missing !

When I first started doing it with my gf, I'd like so much having it on a daily-basis, but unfortunately we're on it on a weekly-basis as we both have other 'not better' things to do as studying and having a normal life.

Yea I know my opinion seems to be a lil' bit too hard on those who are against it, but what the hell ? I'm on this favour side of sex and I don't mind flaming some ppl in order to validate my own opinion, as rude as it sounds, it's my opinion and there's nothing you can do about it.

Thanks,
Mastodi.
 
If two people agree that it is OK for them to have sex before marriage then I don't see a problem with it.

Same applies if they agree to have sex before they even know each others names.
 
Personally, I think sex before marriage is not only acceptable, but essential.

Marriage is 'supposed' to be a life long commitment so you need to know that you are completely compatible with your future spouse before making that commitment.

You wouldn't buy a car without a test drive..would you? 🙂
 
grumpygit said:
Personally, I think sex before marriage is not only acceptable, but essential.

Marriage is 'supposed' to be a life long commitment so you need to know that you are completely compatible with your future spouse before making that commitment.

You wouldn't buy a car without a test drive..would you? 🙂


Well said grumpy ! :great:
 
Can't say I'm against sex before marriage at all. I've broken that quite a few times. :lol:

Nor do I hail it as anything sacred. I simply see it as something pleasurable in life, to which I indulge.
 
I don't care..it's stupid to wanna wait till after marriage. It's not like it'll feel better if you wait.
 
sex is wrong, i believe you should wait till marriage and do only with your wife. this is the best way of living
 
shamzblueworld said:
sex is wrong, i believe you should wait till marriage and do only with your wife. this is the best way of living

How is sex wrong? It's a natural way of life.
 
BlackBox27 said:
A Man is one who waits and marries his wife have sexual intercorse with her

No, that is not a man, that's someone who is willing to wait..but it's not a man. You can have sex with your girlfriend before marriage and still be a man.
 
I believe that is a personal choice, whether is based on religion, home school, etc... it is everyone right to choose when and how let go of their virginity.

I believe that there can be sex before marriage in a mature environment, and I respect the ones that do it, as it has no special meaning to me.

If you must know, I decided to wait until I get married, but that is my decision and I am not going to force it nor debate it, because as I said I just see it as a personal choice.
 
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