Not a fan of the site's design, myself. Some of the stock imagery looks a little bit cheesy, you know what I mean?
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Also, the gradient for the menu bar feels a little bit "odd" to me. Overall, the design is pretty flat (such as the header background), but the gradient isn't, so it ends up feeling kind of inconsistent.
The bevels on the "Members," "Advertiser" buttons also feels odd. And finally, the gradients on the "Premium Sponsors," and "Member Links" sections look unprofessional and I think unnecessary. Overall, I think you site would be greatly improved if you remove some of the gradients and make it flatter.
Also, some colors feel a little bit out of place. For example:
The background color really isn't used anywhere else on the site, so it feels a bit odd when this color is introduced, once you click on of the sub-pages. Also consider this:
I don't think the bright green and the greenish blue go very well together there. And this style of table headings isn't consistent with other table headings which are found throughout the site.
I also agree with John that the ads are a bit overwhelming.
So, overall, I think your site needs to be made flatter and more consistent, preferably with less ads as well.
Good luck!
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