Trouble w/ a girl

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Okay, so I really like this girl that goes to my school, and I think that she likes me too. However, I am too nervous to ask her out, and I don't want to take it too far. Any advice is welcomed. 🙂
 
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Simple advice: be a man, take a chance, ask her out. OR, some other guy will and then you'll be mad at yourself for not asking.
 
I agree with Grievous. When i was at school there was a girl that i liked but i just was to scared to ask here and now i do regret it. I always think what if... On the other hand don't rush into it. It might be better to take a bit longer but do it right rather then rushing in and messing up.
 
Dude if you think she likes you then ask her out! You've got practically nothing to lose, unless she's one of your best friends or something.

But seriously ask her out! Or tell her that you like her, then ask her out.
 
Go for it, if you don't then she will think that you do not like her and you don't have the guts to do it and then the feelings will fade and then she will like someone else and then you will kick your self in the butt. You never know until you just go for it. Look at myself, I went and went straight forward to a girl and asked her on a date and now I've been with her for a happy 4 years.
 
I swear, this is becoming a dating forum.

TRY asking her out. TAKE a chance. Who cares if you get rejected? It's not like you're gonna die. 😛
 
iManga said:
Any advice is welcomed. 🙂
Don't date until you're older. Seriously. I know everybody in middle school is "dating" each other, but 99%+ of middle school relationships end up in long term or even marriage.

Plus isn't it a little weird to say "Hey mom can you drive me to a date with ____ and pick me up in a couple hours?". Get a car and then start dating. If you have a car it (usually) shows that you are mature. And plus girls like a guy that has a car.
 
Kirisute Gomen said:
Plus isn't it a little weird to say "Hey mom can you drive me to a date with ____ and pick me up in a couple hours?". Get a car and then start dating. If you have a car it (usually) shows that you are mature. And plus girls like a guy that has a car.

I totally agree. Having a car is a smart move.
 
Kirisute Gomen said:
iManga said:
Any advice is welcomed. 🙂
Don't date until you're older. Seriously. I know everybody in middle school is "dating" each other, but 99%+ of middle school relationships end up in long term or even marriage.

Plus isn't it a little weird to say "Hey mom can you drive me to a date with ____ and pick me up in a couple hours?". Get a car and then start dating. If you have a car it (usually) shows that you are mature. And plus girls like a guy that has a car.
Also try to have a job..if you have a car, mommy and daddy won't always give your gas money and money to spend on the girl.

"Hun, can you stop and grab me a drink?"

"Um..I kind of can't sweety, I have no money"

To keep out of that situation, have a good paying job. 😉
 
Kirisute Gomen said:
iManga said:
Any advice is welcomed. 🙂
Don't date until you're older. Seriously. I know everybody in middle school is "dating" each other, but 99%+ of middle school relationships end up in long term or even marriage.

Plus isn't it a little weird to say "Hey mom can you drive me to a date with ____ and pick me up in a couple hours?". Get a car and then start dating. If you have a car it (usually) shows that you are mature. And plus girls like a guy that has a car.

But you gotta learn how to do things before you get into high school!
 
Kino said:
But you gotta learn how to do things before you get into high school!


Oh yes, this is coming from someone who has episodes of GGW on his comp. :lol:
 
Do it! Thatys what I did. Life is too short to worry, you have to take chances, thats what life is!
 
Kirisute Gomen said:
iManga said:
Any advice is welcomed. 🙂
Don't date until you're older. Seriously. I know everybody in middle school is "dating" each other, but 99%+ of middle school relationships end up in long term or even marriage.

Plus isn't it a little weird to say "Hey mom can you drive me to a date with ____ and pick me up in a couple hours?". Get a car and then start dating. If you have a car it (usually) shows that you are mature. And plus girls like a guy that has a car.

What are you talking about? Middle school relationships don't mean anything. It's not even considered "dating." It's all just kids who think they're cool because they have a GF/BF. What can they really do at that age? Watch Spongebob together?
 
Christmaßtatic said:
Okay, so I really like this girl that goes to my school, and I think that she likes me too. However, I am too nervous to ask her out, and I don't want to take it too far. Any advice is welcomed. 🙂
Grow a pair and tell her how you feel. 😛
 
General Christmas said:
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Simple advice: be a man, take a chance, ask her out. OR, some other guy will and then you'll be mad at yourself for not asking.

Or she'll move away or something and you'll never see her again.

you're worried she may say know, but if you never tell her how you feel and something happens... you don't want that feeling. You don't want to live your life wondering what would have happened if you asked her. So ask her and don't learn this lesson the hard way.
 
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