Yep I agree with all those, and , the admins are hippocrites. I was one one site once, where you weren't even allowed to discuss your real life issues in the cbox..o.o Now, in all my life i'd never been on board where you couldn't talk about your personal problems. I had simply said in teh cbox that my mind was on a lot of stuff. I get beaned by one of the members, saying that i have to take my boohooing elsewhere, that this wasn't the right place to talk. Now another member gets on and attacked ME, for arguing with the other one and never once, said anything to the other member who was being rude to me in the first place.
Then, I pm a staff member, she actually AGREEES!! with them and claimed "Theres nothing I can do" Then why the F**** are you staff then?? When a member complains, you as a staff/admin are supposed to help them out. If not then you have no business being staff. I got fed up with that place, meanwhile, a few mins later, the same member who got on and attacked me, complains that her friend is annyoing...so yes any time a site is a hippocrite, staff is as limp as a noodle or worse but i dont wanna say, i leave. Because thats unfair.
If the members aren't friendly and the staff are corrupt.
I also don't go back to forums who constantly send useless newsletters out containing useless information which we don't even have to know, and they do it every single week.
Also forums who send out mass pm's to their users all the time as you have to log in thinking it might be worthwhile just to see that FOTM is closing in 10 days -roll-
I think I will leave the forum if it is not active anymore like the one that I am a member of i will bot mention its name, I was posting any kind of topic and no one answering or viewing it and sometimes my thread always stay at the top within a week or two because no one's answering any of it.