Would you rather be gossiped about or never talked about at all?

[Deleted member 49125]

Never talked about at all. I can pick myself up even if others don’t. Plus I rather nobody talk about me than EVERYBODY talk about me & nitpick everything.

 

[Cory]

Never talked about at all. I often felt like due to my awkward and unsociable ways throughout my life that people are gossiping about me and it makes me just think irrationally and makes me focus on the person that I think is gossiping about me.

 

[PGen98]

Never talked about, I have real issues with myself as it is, I don't need everyone else pointing out my flaws 😀

 

[Gizmo]

If people gossip about me then at least I'm being talked about. I must be famous or important to a group of people 😛

 

[Page]

I keep things to myself and most people never gossip about me anyway. Unless I'm not aware of anyway 🙂

 

[Carlos X]

Never talked about... in the wrong way, but people DO talk bad about you.

I can handle gossips because it really does nothing but bring NEGATIVE attention inward to the person gossiping.

But in the professional environment I'd like someone talking about me in the good light.

 

[Claraviolet]

The latter for sure.
There is no way I would want other to gossip about me or pay attention to me. I want to be in the crowd and I don't like attention at all.

 

[MrDawn]

I guess it would be nice for people to always think & talk kindly of me but oh well lol