Would you rather die before or after your spouse/ SO when you’re old?

[Deleted member 49125]

Before, definitely. But then my spouse would probably say the same thing 🙂 A good answer would be to die Together! A bit morbid question though huh? lol

 

[PGen98]

I don't presently have an SO or spouse, but if I did -- I'd rather go after, so that way she didn't have to dwell on my passing and feel alone.

 

[Fait]

Well I’ve already lost close friends through a break up, lost a few people to death so I’ve grown stronger then I once was so either way wouldn’t bother me if I was in a relationship.

Both would hurt and would make me very upset but nothing I’ve felt before.

 

[overcast]

Solo here. Lost people. Will continue to lose. What's happened happened. We do what we can and wait for our turn. Not attached anymore.

 

[MrDawn]

Either way depending on which option in the thread that you pick. Neither presents a better ending. Why choose at all?

 

[Varlot]

I wanna go first, having to organize a funeral seems like a drag.

 

[Page]

Before, defo before as you then not to have to worry about dealing with it as you are dead 😛

 

[Etini Willie]

I wish to die before my spouse because she would be the best person to hold the family better than me.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

I would love to die before my spouse because I am an older person and younger people dying before older people is not a nice thing in my place.