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Even if I didn’t have my soulmate, I would opt to find my calling. My calling can be on-going & I’m in control of it. Whereas a soulmate, once they die, then what?
Yep, there's always plenty of fish in the sea.
I do rather believe finding your soulmate happens once in a lifetime if you are incredibly lucky whereas everything else can be worked for. Perhaps it depends on your definition of a soulmate. For me it's that one person you can't live without.
You find a soulmate, but that soulmate doesn't like you or doesn't like you back. Or lies about liking you... what do you do then? You have to find a way to move on. It's a hard process, but you have to do it. You have to feel it out, and bury it. Find someone else.
I know, because I'm currently IN THAT separation. In tarot/astrology it's called a separation. It's said that you'll come back together, but if the other person doesn't want it, then it's just not going to happen. No matter how many times god put that person in your path.
Me? It happened 3 times before 2018. I went to sleep thinking of this woman for 10-15 years, and we live in the same city, same state, same county. I found her new job, she was workin' at Burger King. (haha, so much for finding someone who has money. 🙄) The next day, she came by the house, with her friend. Because THAT friend was TRYING to push her to do something. (I commend him, that's a good friend there.) The third time, it was when two events happened back to back: Out of nowhere, someone new was trying to find a relationship because she has an empty void, because her father died, and is homeless. That's not how relationships "work." Then, the next day or week, the woman I loved for 10-15 years? Walking in my crosswalk after work.
Then, in 2018, I had multiple vivid dreams. Back to back, the first one was super, super vivid. It's me and my company. I woke up gasping for air. Then, when it comes to love, I had 2 major jolts. One of them is the woman above, the one I'm in separation with. This jolt brought two different visions, the first one was a faint image of her, then, when I woke up... I had that vision of her in my "worldview" but I know she's not there. That is a strong bond.
That is the definition of soulmate.
This woman, this idiot, doesn't realize it. Doesn't realize what was in front of her the whole time.
To be fair, in my defense... I've tried to get chummy with a lot of ladies in that timeframe. I tried dating a few friends of mine, nothing panned out except two. One was a wife, who I love, dearly, but is married. She reciprocates that feeling, but again: Married. I tried dating a black lady, but she is a gold digger. Pass. There's a few, but nothing got far enough to actually say "I love you." Actually, one gone a little crazy over me, I like crazy, but not TOO crazy. People interpret "crazy" as "stupid," but I see it as passion. My point is, I've tried over the years. Nobody got my heart like Aries women.
Sigh. Whatever, man.
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