A Girl Dillema ---> Help Please

[Zenrer]

Saruman, you need some work bro!

Never ask a girl nerdy questions! I laughed when you were going to ask what instrument she plays.

You gotta be smooth when talking to girls, and not be afraid they'll judge you or anything. They won't, trust me.

You just gotta make small, flirty talk that's all. Something nice like, "oh man my day's been crap, has yours been any better?" Or just go straight out asking, "How was your day?" Then normally you can make small talk out of the response.

I wouldn't trust Kino :lol:

But yeah, what Kino said, ask her something like you would maybe ask your friends, she should be no different because you like her.

 

[fantanoice]

TPP, her name is Rachel

Oh the irony, that's my name. ^_^

Anyway, good luck Saruman.

 

[shamzblueworld]

edited: will say on a new thread

 

[Saruman]

TPP, her name is Rachel

Oh the irony, that's my name. ^_^

Yeah, I'm liking the name more than ever now... 😳

 

[Saruman]

Oh man, lol you wouldn't believe what just happened, lol

So, I was getting mad at an incident at my home, you know the usual family brawls, lol, so, I went in my room to escape the madness, when I noticed I got a call from my supervisor, asking if I could do some door hangings, either wed by myself or thurs with the other csr, RACHEL, lol, I couldn't believe it, so I said wed...
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j/k, I said I'd go thurs 😛

Oh man, lol...

I love it! 😉

 

[Bossanova]

To be honest, even if you make an idiot of yourself, do what feels right when talking to her. I'm not saying if grabbing her and kissing her is on your mind to do it, I'm just saying say what you think is right.

If you mess up, oh well. She'll either giggle, realizing you like her, or think you're a nerd. Either way, now you know what works or doesn't work.

 

[Saruman]

Should I of, said I'll do it alone weds?
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Said I could do it alone weds, and then thurs with the other csr?

I could call the store back and say I could go both days, so no one suspects anything...

???

 

[Saruman]

I mean, door hanging as in putting fliers up through neighborhoods.

Even if I didn't go with her, I'd still want to go with someone, just for safety reasons, would you agree?

advice please, lol

 

[Saruman]

Yes I agree. Plus is it Rachel you're going with on Thurs based on the call you got?

Yeah, my supervisor said, if I go on thursday it'd be with Rachel or she said I could go alone weds she said.

ah, my mind is racing with a million questions now... :shake:

So if anyone asks why I went on thurs with her, I could simply say "for safety concerns, I wanted to go with another employee"

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[Saruman]

Thank You!

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I actually have another question, lol 😛 anyone can answer though, so I don't keep on bugging HMD, lol,

Should I really open the car door for her if we are doing "work related stuff"
Of course I'm going to hold the store door open for her, I'd do that for all girls, but I was just wondering if I could possibly get another girls perspective here, on whether or not I should open the car door for her, would it be to much to soon?

I know if a guy opened a car door for me I'd punch him in the face, lmao but thats an entirely new topic 😛

Hopefully I could get a girls response, but I've taken all the advice so far.

 

[birdy]

I think you should hon - I am sure most girls are suckers for gentlemen and doing that shows respect and that you care.

I say definitely do it !

 

[Saruman]

Hey, thanks birdy, sounds good then, I'll do it!

Well...I need to go out and think, and what better way to do that, then picking up doggie land mines left by a 200lb mastiff, lmao 😛

I'll be back if I have any last minute questions though.

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Oh, and we're in Arizona, and its suppose to be in the high 80's, lol, in november 😛 I love it!!

 

[Saruman]

Alright all, I'm gonna leave in about 30 min, its 1:15 now, and I need to be at the store at 2pm.

I don't know what else to say, so I'll just leave it at that, lol

😎

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edit
Ok, well what sucked was she was still at school unfortunately so I had to go with some idiot, lol, ah well though, at least I get to work with her tommarow through sunday.

And I'm not going to rush things, since I already know she likes me, I'd much rather of went with her though 😛
I can't wait to work with her tommarow since she always finds an excuse to work near me, lol

 

[themissingslipper]

Girls like to talk about their feelings and their life experiences. Any questions on how she is feeling and about her life will make you seem sensitive and sweet and will make her happy.

Jeez, I wish guys would talk to me about that instead of blabbering on and on to me about how awesome they think they are or about their hobbies.

I can listen to that stuff, but I NEED THEM TO LISTEN TO ME SOMETIMES TOO.

Guys who listen about feelings and life definitely stand out to girls.

 

[Saruman]

:cheer: ...You know what that means...

Just got back from putting door hangers up with Rachel, and got to know a little more about her, and she also listens to hip hop and alternative like me which is awesome.

And, we both work tonite which is cool too.

So yeah, I'm happy right now 😎