I agree, it depends on how important it is. What I do originally is try to email the place. Then if I absolutely have to, I'll call. I hate calling lol I can go longer though as I put our phone on speaker & set it on the desk while I do other things like browse the 'net, post on forums, or do a puzzle book.
When it comes to spam calls, I'm always polite. However, I don't have to time to chat around, maybe less than a few minutes. Well, I need to block the numbers, but it is a home phone. Well, there is a way, but haven't got around to it.
Important ones I will hang for as long as possible, If it's the phone company they only have a few minutes before I hang it up.
Sitting on the phone is not my thing.
Now, telemarketers if I have time I like to play with them for a bit.😛
It depends on how important the call is to me and what I know about the entity I am calling. If I call and get an automated response system I won’t wait long at all because of
A. I hate those things.
B. I know they are going to make jump thru a dozen hoops answering their prompts anyway.
C. I know it probably won’t result in a resolution without tying me up for a very long time. If this repeatedly happens someone had better address my concerns when I finally do get through. My time is just as valuable as theirs and someone is going to pay for the loss of time one way or another.
D. They di not even speak ENGLISH that well, that's like hands down ended right away in terms of that, SPAM.
It depends on who I'm on hold for. If it's an issue I need resolved I can stay on the call for as long as I need to get it done. However, if I'm speaking with a friend or relative and they asked me to be on hold I don't wait longer than 2 minutes. I figure, if it's taking them that long to switch back over it must have been an important call so might as well let them get back to me whenever.
Fidelity is one of them seeing as they shut down their building during the pandemic and won't re-open it. It takes me less than 10 minutes to walk in there and pay the woman a the desk. But it takes an hour or more to pay them over the phone. It's frustrating.