Princess MeowsePad's Precious Musings

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Thanks, bud. 🙂 I was mostly just trying to poke fun at the so-called "first-world problems" that we all encounter daily. XD
 
Glad to hear you found yourself a new job and you are enjoying it. There's nothing quite like being able to say you enjoy going to work. I have missed you and your articles however I am happy that things are going well for you along with your new job and I look forward to the new articles you write when you can find the time to write them. 🙂
 
I would say people are toxic in video games because it is a place where they can truly be the toxic people they are without fear of repercussions or the loss of rewards. Most people's politeness is built around the desire for "rewards" or the fear of punishment. The moment they think they can either escape punishment or believe the gain for doing wrong is greater then what they think they will get for not doing wrong is when people expose themselves for the toxic people they are IF they truly are toxic at heart. I think the reason you see it so much now as opposed to in the past is because those toxic people have become increasingly callous and without the sort of restraint that many used to have in the past. It's a shame these toxic people often ruin the games they play due to their behavior as it doesn't take too many of them to completely ruin an online game. That's my thoughts on the subject at least.
 
@Princess MeowsePad

As I read your latest post, one thing became clear to me as to what your problem ultimately is as reading that blog post has grieved me(how could I not be grieved at the suffering of a dear friend of mine?) and I have spent these past few days thinking about how to offer a response to it ever since I read it.

You have what I will call a spokesman who came into your life at some point through a voice of one person or another who may or may not be in your life anymore and through that action this "spokesman" who exists as an entity in your mind has made a convincing argument to you that you are worthless, have no value and can do nothing worthy of admiration or respect toward anyone. You likely heard this message for so long in your mind and have let the spokesman's "evidence" convince you it was true and in turn he became the person who speaks for you and determines what you see and how you take what is written or said to you by others. Now, every-time someone actually shows respect or admiration to you, the spokesman comes along and convinces you to ignore them because they are just liars or they just don't know you like the spokesman knows you.

The spokesman invalidates your every effort to be of value to others, have worth in the sight of others and to be loved and admired by others which is why you go to what I would imagine as excessive and likely harmful lengths to earn something that you don't think you have ever had by others whether they be offline or online.

The truth is you are admired, seen as having worth ,and loved here because I care about you and I am sure that I am not alone in that. I would not have spent the time I have spent here since I met you nor ever be noticed by administration that led to my promotion if you haven't been here to keep me around here. I owe a great deal to what I have now for you so I must thank you for it all because without you then I would have had none of it. I feel by far greatly blessed to have known you and am disheartened that you would leave this place or consider leaving it and with it me because you don't think you are valued, admired and loved here. I know the spokesman will try to dissuade from listening to me here so I ask this...

If he says that I am a liar then demand the evidence that proves it. If he claims that I am a fool then demand the evidence that proves that. If you can't find the evidence that proves either claim as true then why listen to the spokesman when he is an obvious liar? Do yourself a favor and fire that spokesman and start reading things yourself and letting them and not the spokesman tell you what they say. If that day shall come to pass when that happens then you will surely be better for it.
 
My inconsequential little site is back on the Internet once again! :3
 
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