Sex before or after marriage?

[InFiNiTy™]

I think it all depends on the person. If that person wants to feal the excitement before he gets married, he can go on with it but it might violate their religions rules. I think it just depends.

 

[USHost247]

Before marriage. I'm not married, so...thats my answer. 😉

 

[InFiNiTy™]

Haha same especy if your eager for it.

 

[Fiona1964]

It should be up to the couple if they want sex before marriage no one really should tell them what is right or wrong

 

[InFiNiTy™]

I agree with Fiona but it's not always like that.

 

[InfiniteJest]

The only reason you wouldn't is because of religion, but I highly doubt an omnipresent creator of the universe really cares if you get it on before, or after exchanging vows (or if you're gay, or if you eat meat on Fridays, the list goes on and on)

 

[Nebulous]

Well Ive never been married and I have a child so I suppose that answers your question.
I think people should not have to wait until marriage but they should at least be an adult. It is an adult activity and the people should be prepared to handle STD's, pregnancy or anything else that comes along with being sexually active.

 

[InFiNiTy™]

You are right theezy. That's the way to go. 🙂

 

[Jonathan]

Sex is just a human thing to do. Having sex with anyone is totally reasonable in my books - as long as the person knows what they're doing, what the risks might be and how they should go about protecting themselves there's no problem in my books. We don't need a piece of paper to be given the right to use our bodies to do what they were made to do. Besides, sex is hella fun.

 

[The Green Stranger]

I'm impartial both ways. I used to want a virgin, but anymore I don't care. Personally, I'm going to wait until marriage just because I want to. Not necessarily because of religious beliefs or anything, but I want the first time to be special for me. You can hate or judge me for it, but it's not going to change my views.

 

[InFiNiTy™]

Haha thats very good answers guys 🙂

 

[Methok]

I got with my now wife 7 years before I married her.

No way could I of waited that long. Not because I'm a raving sex maniac or anything. lol

 

[Ryanplex]

It all depends. Just because a couple decideds to have sex before marriage dosnt mean that its not true love. And just because people wait to have sex untill after marriage dosnt mean its true love either.

I do think that if you decide to wait till your married then you will weed out alot of the people who just want to use you however if it feels right and both of you are with each other for the right reasons then I say go for it, it can either bring you closer together or rip you apart.

 

[death180]

Honestly it is up to that person and the only thing that can control it is them and their beliefs. If they believe to wait, then they will, but if they don't believe they have to, then so be it.

Honestly I don't believe in waiting.

 

[the1]

If the two people want to do it who is going to stop them

 

[Romanite™]

Depends on the people.

 

[XcapeX]

Before marriage..too late anyways.

 

[Killman]

As many has said, I say whenever, if the couple feels ready. I personally think that religious views should not have an effect on the matter though.

 

[Tressy]

I don't think it matters all that much whether or not you have sex before or after marriage as long as you are emotionally and physically ready for it, and that you won't regret doing it. What's also important is that both parties must be mature enough to bear full responsibilities for whatever consequences that arise out of it.

 

[alfred01]

I think you answer your own question. The idea of sex before marriage being wrong is purely a religious concept. Personally, I live by my own set of value's as to what is right and wrong, and I do consider myself to be a moral person.